How to Become a Engineering Manager
People management, hiring, tech strategy, delivery. The IC-to-manager bridge role — half your day is 1:1s, the other half is unblocking the team.
1. The IC-to-Manager Transition
coreWhat Actually Changes
Your unit of output stops being code and becomes team throughput. Different feedback loops, different reward function, different loneliness.
- book paid The Manager's Path (Fournier) →
- blog free Irrational Exuberance (Will Larson) →
- channel free LeadDev →
2. 1:1s & People Development
core1:1s Done Right
The report owns the agenda; you listen more than you talk. Frequency, format, follow-through.
- channel free Manager Tools — The One on One →
- blog free Lara Hogan — First 1:1 Questions →
Career Conversations
Career ladder discussions, promotion cases, coaching for growth. The high-leverage part of your job.
- book paid Coaching for Performance (Whitmore) →
- blog free Lara Hogan's Blog →
3. Feedback & Difficult Conversations
coreFeedback Frameworks
Radical Candor, SBI (Situation-Behaviour-Impact), Nonviolent Communication. Pick one, practise it, iterate.
- book paid Radical Candor (Scott) →
- blog free CCL — SBI Framework →
Managing Underperformance
PIPs done right, exit conversations done kindly, the difference between wrong-role and wrong-person.
- blog free Lara Hogan — Blog →
4. Hiring
coreInterviewing & Rubrics
Structured interviews, calibrated rubrics, closing the loop. Bad hiring is expensive; unstructured hiring is biased.
- docs free Google re:Work — Hiring →
- channel free LeadDev — Hiring →
Onboarding
First-30-day plans, buddy pairings, ramp-up milestones. Well-onboarded engineers stay longer.
- blog free First Round Review →
5. Delivery & Team Operations
corePlanning & Prioritisation
Quarterly OKRs vs bets, capacity planning, roadmap defence. The rhythm your team runs on.
- docs free What Matters — OKRs (John Doerr) →
- book free Shape Up (Basecamp) →
Delivery Metrics (DORA)
Deploy frequency, lead time, MTTR, change failure rate. The four SPACE-adjacent metrics that predict team performance.
- docs free DORA →
- paper free SPACE Framework (ACM Queue) →
6. Technical Strategy
coreReading & Contributing to Architecture
You don't code much anymore, but you still have opinions. Architecture reviews, ADRs, tech debt vs velocity tradeoffs.
- docs free Architecture Decision Records →
- blog free Thoughtworks — ADRs →
Tech Debt Management
When to invest, when to defer, how to make the case. Debt language is now expected of EMs.
- blog free Fowler — Tech Debt Quadrant →
7. Team & Org Design
recommendedTeam Topologies
Stream-aligned, platform, enabling, complicated-subsystem teams. The current best-in-class model for engineering org shape.
- book paid Team Topologies (Skelton & Pais) →
Conway's Law in Practice
Your system reflects your org chart. Reorgs are architecture changes and vice versa.
- blog free Fowler — Conway's Law →
8. Inclusive Leadership
recommendedPsychological Safety
Edmondson's research is now table stakes. Teams that can't safely say 'I don't know' or 'I made a mistake' underperform.
- docs free Amy Edmondson — HBS →
- docs free Google re:Work — Guide to Psych Safety →
Inclusive Hiring & Team Culture
Structured interviews, diverse slates, inclusive language, sponsorship over mentorship.
- blog free Lara Hogan's Blog →
9. Managing Yourself
recommendedEnergy & Focus
EM burnout is common. Meeting-heavy days require deliberate recovery blocks.
- channel free LeadDev — Well-being →
Managing Up
Making your manager's job easier. The under-taught skill that separates staying-here EMs from promoted EMs.
- book free StaffEng (Will Larson) →
10. Voices & Communities
optionalEMs Worth Following
Where EMs learn from other EMs.
- blog mixed The Pragmatic Engineer (Gergely Orosz) →
- blog free Irrational Exuberance →
- blog free Lara Hogan →