How to Become a Engineering Manager
People management, hiring, tech strategy, delivery. The IC-to-manager bridge role — half your day is 1:1s, the other half is unblocking the team.
1. The IC-to-Manager Transition
core2. 1:1s & People Development
core1:1s Done Right
The report owns the agenda; you listen more than you talk. Frequency, format, follow-through.
3. Feedback & Difficult Conversations
coreFeedback Frameworks
Radical Candor, SBI (Situation-Behaviour-Impact), Nonviolent Communication. Pick one, practise it, iterate.
Managing Underperformance
PIPs done right, exit conversations done kindly, the difference between wrong-role and wrong-person.
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4. Hiring
coreInterviewing & Rubrics
Structured interviews, calibrated rubrics, closing the loop. Bad hiring is expensive; unstructured hiring is biased.
Onboarding
First-30-day plans, buddy pairings, ramp-up milestones. Well-onboarded engineers stay longer.
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5. Delivery & Team Operations
corePlanning & Prioritisation
Quarterly OKRs vs bets, capacity planning, roadmap defence. The rhythm your team runs on.
6. Technical Strategy
coreReading & Contributing to Architecture
You don't code much anymore, but you still have opinions. Architecture reviews, ADRs, tech debt vs velocity tradeoffs.
Tech Debt Management
When to invest, when to defer, how to make the case. Debt language is now expected of EMs.
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7. Team & Org Design
recommendedTeam Topologies
Stream-aligned, platform, enabling, complicated-subsystem teams. The current best-in-class model for engineering org shape.
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Conway's Law in Practice
Your system reflects your org chart. Reorgs are architecture changes and vice versa.
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8. Inclusive Leadership
recommendedPsychological Safety
Edmondson's research is now table stakes. Teams that can't safely say 'I don't know' or 'I made a mistake' underperform.
Inclusive Hiring & Team Culture
Structured interviews, diverse slates, inclusive language, sponsorship over mentorship.
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9. Managing Yourself
recommendedEnergy & Focus
EM burnout is common. Meeting-heavy days require deliberate recovery blocks.
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Managing Up
Making your manager's job easier. The under-taught skill that separates staying-here EMs from promoted EMs.
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10. Voices & Communities
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